Comment by: Savannah Scott on February 12, 2026 12:56
I had contacted my representative Laura Wakim Chapman a few weeks ago about my case and story and she told me she'd like to introduce a bill similar to this on my behalf as my story is the worst she's heard. As a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and other trauma I had been diagnosed with CPTSD, depression and anxiety. I've worked on my mental health for almost a decade starting in 2018 when my daughter was born. I left a verbally and mentally abusive marriage in 2022 for the safety of my child and myself. I was a single mom and primary caregiver with minimum help from the father. In December of 2023 my daughter came home and told me she was inappropriately touched in her dads new girlfriends home by another individual (he moved in after knowing her 3 months). I contacted all avenues, CPS, State Police, and she was interviewed by Harmony House, the child advocacy agency who stated this happened to her. She described masturbation and ejaculation. He ejaculated on her belly. She was 5. I had her in therapy immediately and was handling this all on my own as her dad did not believe her and was covering for the abuser. In April of 2024 after a verbal altercation with my ex and the trigger of sexual assault happening to my daughter at the same age that it happened to me, I tried to take my life. I immediately got help, I sought treatment, while in treatment my ex filed emergency custody of our child. I immediately tried to get her back. Our case was in Ohio and was dismissed due to jurisdiction as my ex lied about his address (to avoid WV vehicle taxes). The magistrate Judge said a child had been through enough, I was seeking proper treatment, and a child needs both parents. During this my ex's mother went to my daughters babysitter and took her to her home in Belpre, Oh. I drove there and called the state police as I had legal rights to my child and they told me if I stepped foot on her property they'd arrest me for trespassing as I did not have "paperwork" showing I had rights to my child. They kept my daughter from school as I would legally be able to pick her up, and they refiled for emergency custody in West Virginia and it was granted. My attorney didn't practice in WV and I had to try and find a new one to take my case which took a couple of weeks. The judge has never watched the tape evidence that has been brought up several times of my child's sexual assault, the court ordered visitations at the YWCA, the visitation director overheard my child saying inappropriate things and called CPS. The CPS case worker, went to high school with my ex. Based on his attorneys lies, she currently has ethical violations against her being charged for multiple counts of exposing a child's information and a felony count for intimating a witness in a murder trial she submitted "evidence" a letter written by my exes stepfather who was not at the YWCA CPS investigation (not even signed) stating I was manipulating my child at my YWCA visits when all conversations are overheard. The YWCA director of visitations went to a court hearing on my behalf and everything she said was overruled as "hearsay" all though this is a court appointed agency, the woman cried leaving the court house. This individual is trained in recognizing domestic violence and told me she believes me, she believes my daughter. She told me he was a classic manipulator. I lost visitation with my child for 6 months because of the YWCA trying to advocate for my child. I am not told about doctors appointments, or school meetings which is unlawful on all parties. I have had to have psych evaluations (thousands out of pocket) in which they are basing my "unfitness" on. I have been diagnosed with (Borderline Personality Disorder) BPD, and due to the courts stating my current therapist was unqualified to diagnose me after being with the behavioral health agency since 2018, I had to start over and seek a new therapist who also has stated that I do not have BPD that CPTSD can mimic symptoms of BPD (both therapist have stated this). In my research I have found that the psychiatrist I used has staff who have been investigated by the WV Board of Examiners of Psychologists for falsifying reports, misdiagnosing, and requiring drug tests when the case did not involve drug treatment. I too had to take drug and alcohol testing (out of my pocket) in which I passed although my case is not based on drug addiction, I had to take a 6 week parenting course, I pay over $700 in child support a month for a child I am fighting to see. My ex called and lied to the state that I was not paying him which our court order stated money orders, so my wages were garnished and I overpaid $3,000 (have not been reimbursed). I was blackmailed to take down social media posts about domestic violence laws in other states, and posts about my grief and advocating for mental health if I wanted to get visitation back with my daughter. I get one hour a week with her supervised and that's if he doesn't cancel. I got 15 minutes with her while being stood over on her birthday and I get no holidays. My ex has not followed the court order of allowing more time if the YWCA allows. All while dealing with the custody of our child, and a divorce process going on 3 years my ex has also destroyed the home I purchased (his grandparents home), breaking in destroying the place, calling the house insurance company claiming it was abandoned so they would take out electric panels etc, so that I can not sell the home for its value because only I am on the deed, he stole items from the house including family heirlooms, and when I changed the locks he broke back in to change them back, he wouldn't sign a mortgage refinance plan so the mortgage would be lowered since I am financially drowning. He sold a marital camper out from under neath me and I have seen no reimbursement. He is trying to ruin me financially, emotionally, and mentally all through the court system and has had an unethical attorney helping him. I have paid over $50,000 fighting to get my child back with basically no help from my attorney accept collecting a check, and they want me to pay his attorney fees even though they're dragging this out including my August and December court hearings being cancelled because of his attorneys criminal acts.
I have completed everything they have wanted, and I am no closer to my child. I take medication, I go to therapy weekly while dealing with the worst trauma of all, knowing my child is unsafe and I can't get to her. My brother in law came to court to speak on my behalf that I was abused in the marriage, that I was primary caregiver, and that my child was safest with me. My ex and his mother got a restraining order against their own brother and son to further silence me. The judge goes along with everything his attorney says, even according to my attorney not properly following law but there is no check and balances on these judges. When leaving my last court hearing my attorney told me " I don't even have words for you". They have claimed I am unsafe to my child but have put her in a home full time with her sexual abuser, and is being emotionally, mentally, and verbally abused by her dad and his girlfriend. My daughter begs to come home, she is scared and no one in the legal system that is in place to protect children is helping her. This has been going on for 2 years with no end in site. No targets met. It just keeps moving. I left an abusive man and now he abuses me with the legal system behind him and through withholding my child from me and isolating her so she can not speak on the abuse in the home. Mental Health is not a crime but mine has been criminalized. My child has never been in danger on my behalf, she is loved and cherished. I don't have a CPS case against me. My rights have been violated. I need help. We need laws making abuse on all fronts illegal and punishable, we need laws upholding the justice system: judges and attorneys to higher ethical standards, an ethic violation when regarding children should remove them from all cases involving children and investigate their other cases, we need laws to protect women and children from allowing abusers to hide behind court dockets and lies. In 2026 the fact judges and attorneys aren't held to these standards is appalling. Manipulation training for judges. Unethical attorneys immediately removed from cases while they are out on bond. Believing children and women when they say they are abused.
The current court order from his attorney is stating I should pay child support and continue visitations until my daughter is 18. She is 7. I have 30 days to respond for a final order to be put in place and I'm afraid I'm going to lose my child to these lies and abuse cover ups. I am fully capable to be her mom. I am her safe place. A daughter needs her mother. Unfortunately, I have learned men aren't natural protectors, women/mothers are. Abusers protect no one but themselves. Please help me.
Thanks,
Savannah